He considered me his gf and we only went on 3 dates and only saw eachother at youth group?

Last year was the worst. I felt used. This "friend" would always cheat off my homework and never return the favor. So when this guy had a crush on me, I went with him to the school dance as a FRIEND. My bf and I never talked on the phone not ONCE. He said it's because he's shy so he only wanted to talk through IMs. We went out after only knowing eachother for 3 days. He asked me after 6 weeks why haven't we kissed yet so we ended up kssing. The relationship kept continuing but no dates. We'd see eachother at youth group for 2 hours and he considered that enough. There were lies at school saying we went to 3rd base and the guy who had a crush on me considered me his gf and broke up with me since he thought I cheated. The guy from youth group said we'd be just "friends" (I think it was because we didn't kiss as much) and we hardly talked. He lied about us being friends because he stopped talking to me. We were together for 11 months but only went on 3 dates. Should I be mad he lied?