Can anyone relate to this?

im not trying to boast but im how you say stunning and girls just look at me that way. no im not egotistical and in general i help out anyone with anything such as a simple task as opening a door from helping you on your financial accounting ignment because i believe just by helping other people out, people will see me as a friendly person and that people wouldn't be as intimidated by me for my looks, but soo far all my kindess has gotten me nowhere and has just lead me to be undermined by people for my good looks...is it just me or am i the problem?